There are women with whom there is a wish to be the man. To carry on hands, to hold an umbrella over thin skin, to breathe an iridescent vein on a gentle neck, to admire, admire. Fingers to iron, let mentally where in public don't iron, and to spit on a prilichnost. To cover, take. To give flowers because it after all is simply normal: to give flowers to those who wants to present them. To pour, treat, feed, overfeed even: such thin. Or such pale. Or not thin and not pale, but there is in it something like that that "my poor girl" demands the phrase.